Things that make you go hmm....

I always marvel at the way life unfolds. I could never have guessed some of the highs (or lows) that have happened in my life. I try to enjoy each day, because I put value in the fact that tomorrow isn't promised. Everyday, I am thankful for waking up, for having my family and friends surround me, and yes, even for some of the crappy things that have happened to me. I know that each event in life happens for a reason. We just might not see the reason right away.
No matter what my future holds, I look forward to what life has in store and try to cherish each moment. I am not ashamed of my past. It has made me who I am today. If I can pass some of the life lessons that I have learned on to my son and help him learn from my past, I will feel like I conquered the world. I know he will have his own trials and tribulations, but I pray that they are light and don't last long.
For those who read this, blessings to you and yours, may you get out of life, what you put in!
Salud mi vida!

Me Time

Well, today is a new day! I am enjoying the solitude of the morning. Aidan slept over at a friends, so it is just Sokka and me lounging around. I am trying to reflect on these last few weeks, to see where my path in life is leading and to what areas of my life I can improve. It seems appropriate during this Lenten time, while preparing to acknowledge the sacrifice God's Son made for me, I am also preparing for ways to propel my life forward!
As a mother, I am trying to enjoy my son more. I know that tomorrow isn't promised, but by God's grace, I will enjoy each day we have together. These are the times I will cherish as he grows. Sledding yesterday with him alone was thrilling for me, as we were exploring and having fun together. Then we went back with his friend a little while later and there were new and exciting things to watch. Him and his friend became more daring in the tricks they tried. They used trial and error to see how building a jump would or would not work. After on hour, I was exhausted. So, I sat back and watched as they tirelessly continued playing, laughing, and enjoying their snow day!
As a daughter and friend, I am trying to make wise choices, when to react and when to let go. I am a model to my son of how to treat a parent. I try to keep that in mind when I want to react inappropriately or harshly towards my parents. Unhealthy friends, fall by the wayside and strong friendships, are being fortified. May each day, bring support and encouragement to and from them.
It is truly my hope that while reflecting on my life, I am helping to correct past errs and to forage new and glorious memories to recall in my future:)

SNOOOOWWWWW!

I woke up refreshed after a great girls night out at The Melting Pot. I couldn't decide what to do first! After deciding on coffee making as a first priority, everything else fell into place. I took the dog out and then we (the dog and I) settled in for a good morning read. It was there on the couch that I thought how much I love snow. It slows everyone down, at least for a little while. This is just another reason why I love it!
So, for about an hour, I had some peace and quiet, which is rare. Then my son pounds down the steps to say good morning with his usual cat-like snuggle on my lap. Now, the next question of the day is, stay in pajamas or get dressed?
Hmmmm.......

Reflections

As I woke up this morning, my first thought was, "Now why can't that dog sleep in a little longer!" And so I got up and went to let him out.
After sitting awhile with my cup of coffee, I thanked God that my dog, Sokka, is here with us and healthy and knows when he has to be let out. I sometimes struggle with turning my thoughts into positive ones, but force myself to, especially in the early morning hours. No matter how I am feeling, gratitude can change my attitude. Needless to say, I had to do a mini attitude check.
I took the dog out back, I noticed more of the brick on my house crumbling and laying on the ground. I took a deep breath and said, "Thank you God, for my house!" I realized I can handle anything, as long as I keep my outlook up! Literally:)
I am also thankful today for good friends. Aidan and I went to my old and dear friend's house last night. Her daughter and my son have been friends since birth! They play so well together and that has enabled my friend and I to hang out together, much longer than some of my other friends. We laughed like fools until we cried. We shared dinner and watched a movie. It was one of the best nights I have had in awhile! I have added a photo of my son and his friend. They are so at ease. The best part is, that while one friend was in a little funk over a missing charger for their DS game system, my son says, "Well, I will help you look for it!" After an exceptionally trying day of little boy attitude, it made my heart smile, as I thought, "Wow, my son does internalize some of the things that I am trying to teach him."These are the little joys of motherhood:)

Ponder this.....

"We who are clay blended by the Master Potter, come from the kiln of Creation in many hues. How can people say one skin is colored, when each has its own coloration? What should it matter that one bowl is dark and the other pale, if each is of good design and serves its purpose well."
~Polingaysi Qoyawayma, Hopi ~


It is hard to watch those you love, crash and burn. You can see it coming, but they must experience it for themselves. I truly believe that we are all designed by the Master Creator. He has such grace and an awesome style. We are each created with love. I am sure a great deal of thought went into our creation.
It is because of this, that I want all of my friends and family to live their best lives, as I try to each day. We all fall short sometimes, but we can make each minute new, as long as we are alive another day.
If you are having a rough day or a bad 'patch', look up and keep on trucking. It is never too late to start again:)

Well, I don't know if I have anything profound to say, but it has been an extremely long time since I have written. Our dog is developing quiet a personality, as is my 8 year old son. Life is good right now. Although there are trials and tribulations, my firm belief is in God and He can do all things! My son just received his 1st Reconciliation yesterday and I am so proud of him!